In between goals is a thing called life that has to be lived and enjoyed-Sid Caesar
Everyone needs to have fun in this life and having fun makes a woman more confident in herself. Now when I say Date Night, I am not talking about just going out with another person but to expand on this idea of dating! If your taken, then go on dates with your significant other and have FUN! Get out of your comfort zone and go bowling, to a carnival and play games, to karaoke night or something that gets you active! If you are a single girl then find that guy you never thought you would go out on a date with and have FUN! You can go on the same kind of dates as a taken girl and laugh with the new guy!
Now my idea of expanding on Date Night.... Date Yourself!
Set up a time every week or every two weeks and go out and have some me time. This will get you out of your normal pace of life and you may find something new about yourself and what you like. Take an art class, take yourself to the movies, go out to dinner, even a solo walk around a part would do you good! Seeing being comfortable with yourself is essential to being a confident modern woman. Cause if you aren't comfortable in your own skin then you will not be comfortable being who you are in front of anyone else. Take a little risk and have fun!
See I have learned to appreciate my Date Nights much more since having Danyella (my lil one). My boyfriend and I don't get much privacy to even talk when she is around (I have my own walking parrot) so we have decided that once a week we will have a Date Night. This is one night where it is just us being adults and having fun! Last night we went to dinner and saw Hot Tub Time Machine (laughed my tushy off the entire time!) and this week we are planning a special dinner for us. I have many ideas for when the weather gets nicer too!
Now my Solo Date Nights don't happen as often as I would like but even so I do LOVE them! Last week, I went out to dinner with some friends which was nice to do without keeping watch over Lil One and this weekend is a girl's night naughty toy party (my first one and I am quite nervous!). I can tell you that I have a Solo Date Night planned for the opening weekend of Sex and the City 2 because I LOVE LOVE LOVE them! I know that no one would be able to appreciate watching the movie like I would so it is a night that is great for me time!
Just remember that life is about having fun and in order to be confident a woman needs to learn to smile and laugh with herself and others!
Everyone needs to have fun in this life and having fun makes a woman more confident in herself. Now when I say Date Night, I am not talking about just going out with another person but to expand on this idea of dating! If your taken, then go on dates with your significant other and have FUN! Get out of your comfort zone and go bowling, to a carnival and play games, to karaoke night or something that gets you active! If you are a single girl then find that guy you never thought you would go out on a date with and have FUN! You can go on the same kind of dates as a taken girl and laugh with the new guy!
Now my idea of expanding on Date Night.... Date Yourself!
Set up a time every week or every two weeks and go out and have some me time. This will get you out of your normal pace of life and you may find something new about yourself and what you like. Take an art class, take yourself to the movies, go out to dinner, even a solo walk around a part would do you good! Seeing being comfortable with yourself is essential to being a confident modern woman. Cause if you aren't comfortable in your own skin then you will not be comfortable being who you are in front of anyone else. Take a little risk and have fun!
See I have learned to appreciate my Date Nights much more since having Danyella (my lil one). My boyfriend and I don't get much privacy to even talk when she is around (I have my own walking parrot) so we have decided that once a week we will have a Date Night. This is one night where it is just us being adults and having fun! Last night we went to dinner and saw Hot Tub Time Machine (laughed my tushy off the entire time!) and this week we are planning a special dinner for us. I have many ideas for when the weather gets nicer too!
Now my Solo Date Nights don't happen as often as I would like but even so I do LOVE them! Last week, I went out to dinner with some friends which was nice to do without keeping watch over Lil One and this weekend is a girl's night naughty toy party (my first one and I am quite nervous!). I can tell you that I have a Solo Date Night planned for the opening weekend of Sex and the City 2 because I LOVE LOVE LOVE them! I know that no one would be able to appreciate watching the movie like I would so it is a night that is great for me time!
Just remember that life is about having fun and in order to be confident a woman needs to learn to smile and laugh with herself and others!
No comments:
Post a Comment